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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9211062.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %EVIL DISEASE QUARANTINE EXCOMMUNICATE RELATION+921106 %CLARIFY SHARE POWER TRUST VULNERABLE RISK SECURE 921106 Healthy interpersonal human relationships involve the clarification of and the sharing of: power, trust, risk, vulnerability and security. If power is not clearly shared, the less powerful people are not likely to trust the more powerful people. Out of fear of perceived risks and vulnerability it is unlikely that there will be any true sense of security on the party of anybody. If trust is not rooted in clearly articulated understandings of the foundations for true trust, then participants in interpersonal relationships are unlikely to give to each other true gifts of security within the context of risky vulnerability. If risks are not shared in just and clearly articulated ways, the people who find themselves forced to accept the greater proportion of risks---are unlikely to trust the more powerful people who manipulate them into taking the greater risks and so being more vulnerable and less secure. In responses the less powerful people are likely to be defensive and so generate insecurity and defensiveness on the part of the more powerful people. Defensive manipulations are likely to grow exponentially. If healthy vulnerability is not shared in clearly articulated ways, the people who are not sharing vulnerability are unlikely to understand the relationships among: gifts of true security, healthy vulnerability, healthy trust, prudent risks, personal integrity and communal integrity. It is important that we work toward the clarification of and the sharing of: power, trust, risk, vulnerability and security. Failing to do so can lead to personal and communal disintegration. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================