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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9105101.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONFLICT RESPONSIBILITY LIMITED TIME ENERGY POWER 910510 We cannot do all the things that we feel we "should" do because there are conflicting demands made upon us by the multitude of things we feel that we "should" do. We "should" do more than we can do, and many people feel guilty when they do not do all the things that they feel that the "should" do. Living in terms of long lists of "shoulds" tends to be debilitating, wearing, frustrating and undermines any possibility of maintaining a healthy sense of self esteem. When we have low self esteem we tend to try to gain a sense of high self esteem by trying to accomplish something worthy of respect; e.g., by doing something which we "should" do, so that we can feel proud of ourselves. We try to earn other people's respect by trying to do all that we think that they think we "should" do; and rarely are we adequately rewarded for all of our trying. This lack of reward leads us to become very trying people; trying very hard to please other people, and also being very trying to other people. We also tend to be very trying to ourselves. We need to find an escape from the endless list of "shoulds" and our preoccupation with such lists. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================