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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9101061.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONFLICT EDUCE RESPOND COOPERATE MEET INTERESTS 910106 To achieve satisfaction in a conflict the participants nee to respond to all their interests, concerns and fears in ways which educe and educate; so as to maximize their cooperation in working to minimize their fears, and resolve their concerns, to mutually fulfill their interests with justice for all. Only then can participants in a conflict resolve the conflict. Conflicts are not resolved by virtue of superior ideals, values, will, power, technology, dedication or sacrifice of participants on one side of the conflict. Conflicts are resolved when cooperation is achieved regarding how to satisfy the major interests, concerns and fears of the participants. The dilemma is how to achieve cooperation. In conflicts dilemmas cannot be "solved" through technical means, as if the dilemmas they were technical problems. Dilemmas are not technical problems. Tragedies flow from treating dilemmas as if they were technical problems. At the heart of each conflict may be found one or more dilemmas regarding how to work together to invent creative ways to formulate satisfying agreements about cooperative ventures. The question is: Do the participants want to deal honestly with each other in facing their joint dilemma? The inventions which resolve conflicts are cooperative inventions, not unilateral inventions. The inventions are the fruits of honest cooperative efforts. The inventions which resolve conflicts lessen fears and concerns on both sides of the conflicts; and so the inventions facilitate cooperation, educement, education, imagination, creativity and sympathy regarding the interests of all the participants. The inventions which resolve conflicts help the participants get to personal positions where they can together say YES to a jointly invented proposal. Neither side can be regarded as the winner because both side win in ways that satisfy them and build a relationship which promises greater future cooperation. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================