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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9006253.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RELAX PLAY RESOLVE CONFLICT RECREATION COLLUSION 900625 Relaxation, play and conflict resolution are taboo to participants in collusive games of mutual self deception. They fear that in relaxation, play or conflict resolution their dishonesty will be exposed. They must be constantly on guard and ready to engage in even more sophisticated versions of their games to conceal their dishonest games. They would be faithless to their ultimate concerns to let down and relax, honestly play, or work for the real resolution of conflicts. Participants in collusive games of mutual self deception cannot permit themselves to feel good about themselves if they are being faithless and are letting down, relaxing, honestly playing or are involved in conflict resolution. Perfection in the service of the maintenance of appearances is essential to feeling good about oneself. The addicts and codependents who are playing collusive games of mutual self deception drive themselves without limit in their efforts as workaholics and relationship addicts trying to prove that fixes can work effectively. No sacrifice is too great to be made because they believe that the essence of their very being depends upon their success in such efforts. The Biblical commandment to take a day of rest once a week must be re-interpreted to protect collusions. It is often interpreted that for one day a week we must concentrate our efforts more intensely in the service of some religious collusion. To some people the Sabbath is not a day of rest, but a day of extra religious services (works) which protect their religious collusions. Militarists must be on guard to protect their conflicts and maintain the adversarial relationships with the enemies who justify their defensive postures; whether it is the Sabbath or not. Businesses must compete every day of the week, or lose business, and the reason for their very existence. Students must study every day to keep up with the exponential growth of information and be true scholars. Researchers must research every day to keep up with the competition and publish before the others do, and so be able to achieve tenure and scholarly salvation. Each collusive subculture demands unlimited dishonest service and so must covertly undermine any inclination to relax, honestly play or engage in conflict resolution. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================