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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9005161.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %IRRITABLE ANGRY RESENT VIOLENT REVENGE ADDICT WAR 900516 People who are seeking to be in control of that which they cannot control are systematically disappointed day after day after day. The more they fail to achieve the control that they think that they should and can achieve, the more irritable, angry, resentful, violent and revengeful they are likely to become; and willing to go to war against those whom they perceive to be responsible for their projected frustrations. It is not safe to regard with indifference those people who are seeking to be in control; even if they are not seeking to control you in particular. Such people are in the long term a threat to everyone around them, and to themselves. Their addictive personality dooms them to precipitating in many tragic conflicts which will lead to much violence and the perpetuation and growth of the number of conflicts. It will not be integrative to engage in battles with those who seek to be in control; for any manipulative confrontation and attempt to control them will only heighten their resolve to try harder to be in control with more sophisticated technologies. They need to be confronted with the truth; the truth about their addictive attitudes, assumptions, convictions, ideals, values, and behaviors. The confrontation with the truth is essential, but it must be as charitable as is possible. Even a most charitable confrontation will be terrifying to them, for it is bound to destroy their world view which is the only source they see for security; flawed as their view is. They need to experience an alternative source for true security which is the freedom to be vulnerable. Taking advantage of their vulnerability will not teach them about true security. Only a truly charitable approach can do that. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================