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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9005151.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %IMPATIENCE CONTROL DESIRE FRUSTRATION ANGER RESENT 900515 Many negative emotions are rooted in the attitudes, expectations, desires, values, ideals, etc. which are characteristic of addicts. Impatience is rooted in the desire to be in control. People who want/expect to be in control find it impossible to be authentically patient because authentic patience is rooted in an acknowledgement that it is impossible to be in control of the course of events; and that sometimes the most creative response to a situation is to wait for events to unfold. Frustration is rooted in a course of events not conforming to some expectation, desire, intention, etc. The frustration is not great if there was no pretense that the course of events was under personal control. The frustration is great if there was pretense that the course of events was or should have been under personal control. Anger at another person is often rooted in the other person not being or doing according to manipulative expectations; the other person not yielding to attempts to control. The failure of the other person to yield threatens the games of mutual self deception according to which personal control over the course of events is apparently being exercised. Resentment is rooted in the memory of a course of events which did not evolve according to expectations, intentions, desires; and there is a perception that some other person or group was to blame for things turning out wrong. The other person or group was not under control when they should have been under control. It is their fault that terrible consequences occurred and the memory of that fault is nursed in ways which drive and guide present attitudes, emotions and intentions. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================