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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9005121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %AUTHENTIC RECOVERY ADDICTION PROCESS NAME DESCRIBE 900512 The authentic process of recovery from addiction(s) involves the victims of the addiction(s) in: 1. Naming and describing their particular apparent form of addiction and how it relates to other forms of addiction and codependence. 2. Recognizing and describing their underlying primary form of addiction and any covers that it tends to use to conceal and otherwise protect their primary form of addiction. 3. Articulating to self and others the ways in which their addictive processes undermine their own and others' personal and communal integrity. 4. Discovering and describing how their addiction(s) provide ways to escape from honest intimacy which they cannot know how to handle/control. 5. Gaining some practical insights into the personal roots of their own addictions and the ways in which they are passing their addictions on to others through their dishonest behaviors. 6. Learning how to honestly detach from fellow addicts and codependents in charitable ways, and to honestly detach from the memories pleasant of their addictive processes in charitable ways. 7. Describing and acknowledging the reality of their own and others' limitations as mortal sexual creatures who are seeking the joys of intimacy while trying to avoid the embarrassments of honesty. 8. Describing and acknowledging the reality of their own and others' real but limited powers to properly care for themselves and others in balanced ways. 9. Detaching from dualistic analysis and judgmental blaming of self and others for the course of human events, while developing integrative ways to respond to such events with personally authentic honesty. 10. Learning how to enter into intimate relationships which are open and honest, rather than trying to achieve the anticipated good feelings of such relationships by dishonestly manipulating participants, environments and appearances. 11. Shifting their attention from the dishonest roles being played by self and others in the drama of life; to the honest perceptions, experiences and feelings of the real persons who are playing honest roles. 12. Distinguishing between the persons who are the victims of addictions on the one hand, and on the other hand the particular combinations of addictive processes from which they can recover if they truly seek to do so. 13. Distinguishing between dishonest attempts to control the course of human events, and honest efforts to influence them with personal and communal integrity. 14. Shifting from attempting to control self and other through manipulative techniques, to seeking to engage in open and honest dialogue which will probably influence the attitudes and behaviors of all authentic participants. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================