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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COPE DUALITY REJECT ACCEPT ALIENATE LOVE OBJECT 900220 To cope wisely we must develop the skill to cope with both ends of each duality spectrum; e.g., rejection and acceptance, alienation and love, violence and affection, repression and expression. A failure to deal wisely with one end of such a duality spectrum may well be related to a failure to deal wisely with the other end of the spectrum. What may seem to be unrelated and disconnected dilemmas may be two poles of our failure to deal with such a duality. We may oscillate back and forth between failure at one end of the spectrum, and failure at the other end of the spectrum. The oscillation may be a futile effort to deal with a recent failure by running to the other extreme of the spectrum. If we do not know how to deal wisely with unconditional acceptance, love, affection and expression; we may experience rejection, alienation, violence and repression as we fumble our creative opportunities. If we do not know how to deal with rejection, alienation, violence and repression; we may not know how to accept acceptance, love, affection and expressions which might heal our rejection, alienation, violence and repression. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================