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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ASPECTS DISHONESTY ROOTED SEXUAL DENIALS COLLUSION 890922 Many aspects of human dishonesty are rooted in a few fundamental denials related to human sexuality. A felt need to maintain collusions in support of those denials leads to many aspects of human dishonesty. To transcend such sexual collusions we may have to learn to be honest regarding patterns of denial about the felt needs to deny the implications of human sexuality. Sexuality is related to human reproduction and thus to the fact that human beings are born; i.e., have a beginning. Creatures that have been born have not existed forever, are not eternal. Creatures that have been born thus do not live forever; i.e., they eventually die. Many aspects of human dishonesty are rooted in a felt need to deny our mortality. If we cannot be honest about our mortality it is impossible to be honest about our sexuality which points to our mortality, our limits and limitations. Human sexuality is a fundamentally reflexive aspect of human relationships. In sexual relationships we find our relationships pointing back to ourselves in essential ways; to our bodies, minds, wills, souls, spirits. Sexual relationships point to the impossibility of always being objective because we cannot ever be objective about our sexual relationships, which are essentially reflexive in nature. To the extent that we are committed to always being objective to fulfill our scientists' paradigm, we cannot be honest about our human sexuality. We need to develop the ability to be honest about the impossibility of being objective with regard to all human experiences. Without that ability we cannot be honest about any human experiences which point towards human sexuality which undermines our pretense of total objectivity. Sexual relationships involve many emotions which we cannot control in efforts to conform the emotions to our chosen expectations/conceptions of what is good, and what should be avoided as being evil. Our sexual nature undermines our pretense of being able to always be in control of our destiny. We cannot be honest about our sexual relationships and experiences so long as we try to pretend that we can always be in control of our destiny. Many aspects of human dishonesty are rooted in our compulsive efforts to deny our mortality, births, deaths, conceptions, reproduction; our non-objective reflexive relationships, our lack of control over our destiny. Many of our collusions are rooted in efforts related to those fundamental denials. We cannot enjoy personal/communal integrity until we learn how to cope with our fundamental denials related to our sexuality. Sexual honesty is essential to personal and communal integrity. Sexual honesty is not possible without honesty about human mortality, reflexive relationships, and lack of control over destiny. It is important to recognize the tap roots of our many forms of dishonesty. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================