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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8809131.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DIALOGUE LIBERATING DECISION QUESTIONS ATTITUDES 880913 Liberation from the prisons of collusive addictions and codependence is facilitated by open and honest dialogue regarding personal experiences of liberation by participants in dialogue. Liberation comes to people who make integrative decisions, who raise integrative questions, who live with integrative attitudes. Liberation can be shared by meeting together to share experiences of liberation openly and honestly. It is possible to identify liberating attitudes, questions, decisions, assumptions, perspectives, conviction, beliefs; just as it is possible for people to become imprisoned in collusive addictions and codependent relationships by slipping into enslaving attitudes, questions, decisions, assumptions, perspectives, convictions and beliefs. Together people can reconstruct their lives by sharing their experiences regarding both disintegrative and integrative processes, with all their pain and joy. Learning comes through dialogue regarding mistakes made and lessons learned from careful consideration of mistakes made. In an integrative community more can be learned than in splendid isolation. In an integrative community attention is helpfully focused upon the powerful decisions which play central roles in leading into and out of collusive addictions and codependent relationships. When we are trapped in such prisons there is an understandable tendency for us to focus our attention upon the walls of the prison: coercion, violence, mean words, anger, frustration, depression, fear, etc. We can not escape from our prison through focussing our attention on such walls or through such walls. It is important to find the door and the door knob, for the door is not locked, it is just shut. The walls of the prison have been constructed by the participants in the prison. The walls were constructed in the making of powerful decisions which lead away from freedom and into collusive addictions and codependent relationships. The power of the decisions is not recognized by the people who participate in the decisions. It is important to recognize the kinds of decisions which hold such power of imprisonment. The way out of the prison is in fellowship where there is open and honest dialogue about those powerful decisions which have lead into prison, and about powerful decisions which can lead back out of prison. The way out of prison is rarely found by isolated people. It is often found by communities working together in honest conversations which convert the attitudes, questions, decisions, assumptions, perspectives, convictions and beliefs of the participants in conversion processes of liberation. To get out of prison requires a conversion, a turning around in conversations with fellow prisoners. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================