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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8703302.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INTEGRATIVE DESIRES & COMMUNAL EXPECTATIONS 870330 Blessed are those who enjoy integrative desires and communal expectations of the fulfillment of those desires in integrative ways, for they are free to know each other with both personal and communal integrity in intimate relationships which involve both vulnerability and true security. Dammed are those who are driven by healthy desires and instincts which because of collusions are taboo and feared with ignorant apprehension by those who are not familiar with them or their consequences; for they are not free to know each other with either personal or communal integrity. So many people are dammed to defensive relationships which involve both vulnerability and insecurity which is heightened by defensive technologies. Communities which enjoy both personal and communal integrity are blessed with ideologies which bless and guide healthy desires and instincts in integrative ways which set them free to bring people together in coherent ways which fulfill creative possibilities and give significant meaning to all the participants. In such communities expectations are not at variance with possibilities and probabilities; coercion is not blessed by any legalistic system of morality or ethics. When people are coerced to make them be "good" the resultant disintegration occasions a felt need to use more coercion. When people's natural desires and instincts are integrated in coherent ways a secure context emerges within which people feel free to be vulnerable in cooperative efforts to deal with their failures to fulfill their ideals and goals with due respect for both personal and communal integrity. There is in such an integrative context no felt need for coercion and defensiveness. Members of such a community are free to take it for granted that they are all working for a profound unification of the community. They do not suspect each other of non-conformal perversities which they have learned to fear. They do not expect each other to be disintegrative, and by and large they are not. They are blessed with integrative instincts and desires. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================