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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8611294.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REACTIONS AND RESPONSES 861129 It is helpful to contrast reactions and responses. Reactions are systematic objective actions which are caused by external events. Responses are spontaneous subjective communications elicited by others' being open. Reactions may involve automatic emotions. Responses involve higher level emotional communications. Reactions are often the result of manipulations. Responses are inhibited by manipulations. Emotional fulfillment involves mutual responses, not reciprocal reactions. It is not always obvious to participants whether they are responding or reacting to each other. Many do not know of the possibility of relationships at the level of mutual responses. They have only experienced life on the reactive level. They are not familiar with responsive individuals, only with reactive people. Absent that familiarity they have no role-models to guide them into mutual awareness and understanding at the level of spontaneous, un-calculating, reflexive responses. They are the lonely people, lost in the lonely crowd, with no one truly near to them. Their objective and subjective lives are not congruent. They lack integrity and so their behavior lacks integrity. They are violent in their frustrated alienation. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================