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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8606122.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %KINDS OF MUTUALITY 860612 A genuinely mutual personal relationships is characterized by mutuality in many complementary ways. In a mutual relationship the participants will tend to describe the relationship in very similar terms. A relationship is not a mutual relationship if one person describes it as a loving relationship and the other person describes it as a paternalistic one. Any such strongly felt difference in how participants perceive and describe their relationships indicates it is not a genuinely mutual relationship. To be genuine mutuality must include mutuality in the exercise of power. Mutuality and reciprocity as regards interests is important. Participants are responsive in mutually satisfying ways to shared desires. This can not be if power to make minor and important decisions is not shared equitably. The dominance of one person undermines the possibility of genuine mutuality. Mutuality in power and mutuality in responsibilities go hand in hand just as people participating in mutual relationships go hand in hand. The responsibilities and powers of each need not be identical, but resentment about differences is a clear sign of lack of genuine mutuality. Mutuality with regards to satisfaction is characteristic of genuinely mutual relationships in which there is mutuality with regards to important aspects of the relationships. When there is a lack of mutuality as regards satisfaction and enjoyment there needs to be a mutual effort made to identify the occasion for the lack. It may be in a failure to come to mutually satisfactory resolutions of conflicts. Mutual relationships do involve conflicts and the resolution of conflicts. Any conflict remains unresolved so long as a participant in the conflict continues to regard it as not yet satisfactorily resolved. If a conflict is viewed as one as continuing to be worthy of more concern and attention then it has not been resolved to the mutual satisfaction of the participants. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================