This-essay is a8512201.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %REPRESSION OF GIVING RECEIVING 851220 Due to collusions against emotions there are taboos against giving and receiving emotional gifts. That which must not be acknowledged as being real can not be a real gift which is openly given and received with acknowledgement. Thus no desire may be expressed as regarding the hope for receipt of such taboo gift, and so the desire may be expressed as regarding the hope for receipt of such a taboo gift, and so the desire to give such a taboo gift can not be elicited by the acknowledgment of the desire to receive it. Both the desires to receive and the desires to give being inhibited further inhibit their complementary desires by absence--- thus fulfilling the taboo but not the people who are in need of sharing reciprocal/reflexive desires and gifts. What ideals, goals, principles occasion collusions against emotions? Some people believe that by repressing emotions they can transcend bias. They believe that objectively ignoring emotions and failing to acknowledge emotions somehow frees them of the biases present when emotions are dealt with openly and honestly. These beliefs are probably motivated by fears occasioned by childhood emotional needs which were not acknowledged or met and perverted responses to the perverted situations which occasioned the failure to meet those needs. In a tragic feed-back loop the perversions perpetuate themselves with self-justification by people seeking to justify themselves for being emotionally immature. To transcend bias the nature of bias must be recognized. Bias has to do with exclusivity, favoritism, repression, lack of balance. Unbalanced approaches to situations in which are characterized by favored treatment of some concerns to the exclusion and repression of complementary concerns are inherently biased and promote the growth of biased behavior, undermine emotional health and generate tragic feed-back loops the motivation for further such unbalanced approaches. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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