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This-essay is a7906151.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %DEPENDENCY-2 RELATE RIGHT COLLUSION+790615 %JACK SEX AFFIRM FAITHFUL INTIMATE COMMUNICATE 790615 Jill waited many years before she met Jack. She waited until the right one came along. She was not sure that Jack was the right one at first. But now she is very sure that Jack was the intended right one. She could not live with herself if she even entertained the hypothesis that she did not marry the right one, so she and Jack have created a collusion with each other and their relatives that they were meant exclusively for each other. Their relationship is an affirmation of the goodness of the waiting process and the correctness of the recognition of each other as the right one who came along. Since so many years were invested in the waiting---the commitment to the goodness of the fruits of the waiting is very intense. Jill saved herself for Jack. She was tempted to affirm herself earlier, but deferred such self-affirmation until Jack came along. Now she is affirmed by Jack and Jack is affirmed by her. Neither is anybody without the other, they are one. They go everywhere together. They share the same name, activities, identity, friends, bed, etc. They are with each other in all and all. They are dependent upon each other at very profound levels, and dependent upon their relationship to define who they are. Outside what each other defines them to be, and outside what their relationship defines them to be, they are nobody. If either of them dies the other will be nobody and will be lost. Jack and Jill are threatened by couples that do not wait until the right one comes along and engage in intimate relationships on a tentative basis, or make permanent commitments as if the right one had come along---and then decide it was not the right one. Watching such behavior threatens Jack and Jill's collusion and so they punish those who do not wait or decide they did not marry the right one. They excommunicate such people who are unfaithful to the collusion which is their source of meaning and fulfillment in intimate relationships. Jack and Jill are dependent upon each other, their relationships, and their collusion---and attack anybody or power that threatens their dependency. Their meaning is dependent upon their dependency, and they work to preserve their wonderful dependency. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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