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                             %FAILURE TO MANIPULATE 760520

     A  manipulative person fears  intimate  relationships
because   of  a  fear  that  using  vulnerability   as   a
manipulative   technique  will  not  produce  the  desired
result.   A manipulative person acts in ways calculated to
produce certain results.  Ambiguity of a likely outcome is
thus undesirable.   Certain results must be guaranteed via
the  systematic  effort.   Such  a  person  is  likely  to
perceive intimate relationships  in  an analytic way,   as
composed  of manipulative elements,   and not perceive the
whole  reality in its integrity.   The elements are likely
to  be  perceived as defectively designed---in  that  they
cannot guarantee the fulfillment of  intended results. The
manipulative person will thus fear  to  attempt to use the
essential elements of  intimate relationships---out of the
fear  of  failure  to  fulfill  expectations.    Thus  the
manipulative person needs to acquire a new perspective  of
the  need  for  intimate   relationships---and   needs  to
discover an emotionally-fail-safe environment in  which to
experiment and learn how to  enter  into intimate personal
relationships.
                                                                                                                               
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