Domineering people are preoccupied with issues of control; with concentrating power so that they can be in control.
Domineering people feel insecure and vulnerable when none of them are in control. They cannot trust Love or true lovers; because true lovers; are not preoccupied with issues of control and are very strange, cannot be understood.
Evil relationships are the fruits of domineering people's efforts to be unilaterally in control; because such efforts are naturally alienative. True lovers are not welcome, because true lovers will spoil domineering people's collusive games of mutual self deception; will unmask dishonesty.
820 CONTROL 200 SIN 172 DOMINAT 168 EVIL 151 LOVE 148 SELF 133 SYSTEM 114 ADDICT 112 GOD 110 POWER 106 PERSONAL 102 GOOD 92 INTEGRITY 88 CONFLICT 81 VIOLENCE 80 RELATIONSHIPS 70 COMMUNAL 67 LAW 67 DEVIL 65 ALIENATION 64 SALVATION 63 HONEST 62 CONTROLS 61 PEOPLE 61 INTIMACY 59 COERCION 58 EXCLUSIVE 57 SEX 57 OTHER 56 SINS 54 LAWS 53 ISSUES 51 INTIMATE 51 DISCIPLINE 50 SECURITY 50 LOVERS 50 DEVILS 49 SEXUAL 49 ADDICTIVE 48 RESPECT 48 RELIGIOUS 48 REFLEXIVE 48 ADDICTION 47 MANIPULATE 47 DIALOGUE 47 COLLUSION 46 UNDERSTAND 45 VULNERABLE 45 FEAR 45 ARROGANCE 44 PREOCCUPATION
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