One of the most helpful ways to help each other to accept the vision of helping each other to "Mitigate Our-Own Alienative Conflicts" - - - is to do things by which we can convince each other that even if we "Let-GO-OF" MANdatory features of the Life-Styles - - - of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters - - - there will be many Reliable-People who will Accept-US Just-As-We-Are - - - Thereby creating a safety-net for any of US who are close to willing to make THE-TRANSITION. ================================================================================================== For Domineering-Bullies every one of US is in competition with every other Domineering-Bully; all of the time and in every circumstance. We DARE-NOT-LET-GO-OF the generally accepted standards by which, Domineering-Bullies judge-how-good a Competative-Bully - - - each other bully is. ================================================================================================== Compared to being among gangs of Domineering-Bullies, we are safer and more secure being among people who are working to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts! We can work better together to adjust to changing envionmental conditions which we cannot actually control, than can Domineering-Bullies who pretend that the environmental conditions are not changing!