Communities that fail to generate true broad consensuses about sound-foundations for: Cooperation Colaboration Affectionate-Friendships Personal-Intimacies Sexual-Relationships will Most-Probably suffer the Alienative-Consequences of Alienative-Conflicts that are not Mitigated by those persons who are Most-Intimately-Involved in "Relationships" that are: Contentious Polarizing Dichotomous Unconventional "Different" "Strange" "Threatening" Dominated by Bullies and Mobbing Mobsters Controlled by Bullies and Mobbing Mobsters Infected by Addicts and their Codependent-Supporters Infected by Technocracies and Technocrats Infected by Myths that Affirm-Alienative-Techniques Infected by Myths that Affirm-Alienative-Controls and Controllers Infected by Myths that Affirm-Concentrations of Wealth-and-Powers The responsibilities-and-duties for generating the above foundational consensuses rest with the whole-communities - - - not with alienated single isolated individuals!! The latter do not have either the power, inclination, insight, wisdom or prudence to fulfill the duties that are essential for generating the foundations for civility and civilization! Domineering-Bullies who belong to Exclusive-Country-Clubs and/or Religious-Groups and/or are Religious- Leaders - - - are not inclined to Honor, Facilitate or Build the Foundational-Consensuses for: 1. Healthy Sanctuaries for Open-and-Honest: Dialogues, Friendships, Intimacies and/or Sexual-Relationships. 2. Healthy Pilgrimages or Explorations of new kinds of personal relationships - - - in Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts over the above dilemmas and issues. 3. Being-Together in Shalom's Most-Gracious-Ways of LOVE. 4. Accurate-Reliable-Confirmed-Descriptions of the Findings of both Objective and Reflexive Systems- Analyses - - - in all kinds of Cultural-Environments and Gracious-Sanctuary-Communities. ============================================================================================================== The above "hints" at the challenges that can arise when you try to Mitigate-Our-Alienative-Conflicts! This is not work for naive simple-minded "optimistic" people who assume things are better than they are!