78 Relationships between and among Domineering-Bullies and True-Lovers are Essentially- Asymetric in that: 1. Domineering-Bullies approach True-Lovers as Objects-to-Be Unilaterally: Manipulated Controlled Owned Transformed Converted Objectivied Used Abused Means-to-Profit Raped 2. True-Lovers approach Domineering-Bullies Graciously as: a. People with whom to be reconciled in Cooperative-Ways, b. People to be Understood as People-in-Love, c. Potential-Participants in Open and Honest Dialogues, d. Potential-Participants in Intimate Relationships, e. Potential-Participants in Mitigations of Mutual-Alienative-Conflicts, f. Internally-Conflicted Evolving-Mortals, g. Internally-Conflicted Simplistic-Idealists. 3. The Alienative-Conflicts of Domineering-Bullies with True-Lovers cannot be Fully and Graciously-Mitigated without Domineering-Bullies Transcanding their Alienative-and-Mutually-Exclusive: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Techniques Technologies and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - that are Essentially- NOT-Winnable in any Meaningful-Sense. Domineering-Bullies-Ways are Essentially Disintegrative in Unilateral-Ways. Domineering-Bullies-Ways are NOT-SUSTAINABLE in-the-long-term. True-Lovers ways are Essentially Integrative in Cooperative-Ways. True-Lovers ways are Essentially SUSTAINABLE in-the-long-term.