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We will become able to help each other to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - - Only-to-the-Extent that we Help-Each-Other-To - - - 1. Let-Go of all our preoccupations with Being-In-Control of realities that No-One Can-Control. 2. Feel Secure in each other's un-pretentious-authentic-presence in Shalom's-Many-Ways. 3. Know that we are each Authentically-Secure Being-Together within Shalom's-Many-Ways. 4. Understand How-and-Why - - - "invulnerability" is not-the-key to being: secure, safe, satisfied, healthy, robust, confident, enduring, sustainable, and free to relax/sleep in peace. 5. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not be-fearful and always-ready to defend- ourselves - - - as Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters try-to-do in tragically-futile Alienative-Conflicts. 6. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not Play-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual - - - Self-Deception - - - Which-Nobody-Can-Win - - - In-any-meaningful way! 7. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not Attempt-to-Be Superior-to-Other-People - - - Whom we-do-not-know. 8. Understand How-and-Why - - - Being-Dominant undermines-the possibilities our-being- together - - - Truly: Secure, Safe, Satisfied, Healthy, Well-Integrated and free to relax/sleep in peace. 9. Have Visions-Of-Changes and Envision-Changes - - - which-enable US to lead-each- other into being-able to help-each-other - - - to Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts. 10. Cooperate in Gracious-Authentic-Efforts to Move-Together in Shalom's-Many-Gracious-Ways to Facilitate all of the above Transitions from were we are - - - into Shalom's-Ways. 11. Recognize, Acknowledge, Clarify, Describe and Be-Together Within Open-and-Honest- Dialogues about How-to-Deal-With the Complexities in: a. Why all of the above will entail: Obstacles, Frustrations, Fears and Terrors. b. Confusion, Doubts, Uncertainty, Negators, Contentious-People, Dichotomies, Polarizations, Bullies, Mobsters and Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes. c. Identifying-Gracious-Resources-and-People - - - who are willing to support - - - the above Gracious Kinds of Collaborative-Efforts. 12. Be-Together in Affirming Words-and-Actions Supportive-of-all-of-the-above.