We are in trouble - - - if we have no gracious and integrative standards by which to discern - - - and respond graciously and wisely to the dilemmas pointed to in the previous few essays. We are also in trouble - - - if our pattern is to respond to such dilemmas - - - guided by: fear, terror, horror, disgust, anger and/or self-righteous-indignation - - - which echoes many of the dilemmas pointed to in the few previous essays. We cannot Mitigate-Objectionable-Behaviors - - - by copying those Objectionable- Behaviors as Means - - - to Our-Own-Desired-Gains. Our Superior: Intentions, Gains, Goals and/or Spirits - - - will NOT Truly-Mitigate- Objections to Our-Own-Copied-Objectionable-Behaviors. True-Lovers and Mitigators-of-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - cannot truly bond with Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters - - - while they still cling to their Alienative-Destructive-and-Dishonest: Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues and Pretentious-Hopes - - - for Achieving-Invulnerability as the key to Sustainable- Security. Dishonesty and Pretentious cannot truly be parts of any process of Mitigating-Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts.