To the extent that people in a community do NOT engage in Open-and- Honest-Dialogues about how to Mitigate-their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - Because they are Playing-TO-WIN-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - To-That-Same-Extent - - - they are not enjoying their Constitutional-Rights regarding their Freedoms of: Speech, Press, Assembly, Petition, and of Open-and-Honest-Dialogues in their daily personal relationships. It will NOT be helpful to engage in focusing upon WHO-IS-GUILTY; WHO should be BLAMED, SHAMED, PUNISHED or EXCOMMUNICATED - - - Because many people did not enjoy their constitutional communication rights in the presence of Their-Own PLAYING-TO-WIN-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception! The focus upon: GUILT, BLAME, SHAME, PUNISH, EXCOMMUNICATION is just a new form of Playing-TO-WIN-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception! This NEW-FORM of the GAME - IS EQUALLY-EFFECTIVE-IN-DESTROYING COMMUNICATION-RIGHTS. Other Aspects-of-the-GAME include: ADDICTIONS CODEPENDENT-SUPPORT-OF-ADDICTIONS Concentrating-Wealth ISOLATIONISM Being-"Superior"-People Concentrating-Powers INVULNERABILITY Being-"Inferior"-People Being-Submissive Preparing-for-WAR Preparing To-Engage-in-War Ignoring-WAR Being-Terrorized Preparing To-Terrorize-Others Ignoring-Terrors Alienative-Conflicts Preparing To-Alienate-Others Ignoring-Alienations Blocking Conflicting-Mitigations Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts Avoiding-Conflict-Mitigations We can be Healthy and Well-Integrated - - - Only to the extent we Understand-Each-Other And these complex Inter-Relationships!