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Domineering-Bullies are Temperamentally-and-Ideologically Disposed TO: 1. Not-Trust-People 2. Be-Suspicious-of-People 3. Be-Pessimistic, 4. Be-Cynical 5. Be-Pretentious, 6. Be-Individualists 7. Be-Greedy, 8. Be-Isolationists, 9. Trust-Violence, 10. Trust-Coercion, Engage-In the process of Concentrating: Wealth, Powers, Influence, Luxuries and MORE! The Above-Dispositions Undermine-and-Destroy the Potentially-Creative-and-Helpful Possibilities of: 1. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues, 2. Cooperation-and-Colaboration, 3. Fellowship-and-Intimate-Bonding, 4. Communication-and-Coordination, 5. Mutuality-and-Hospitality, 6. Generosity-and-Kindness, 7. Sympathy-and-Empathy, 8. Integrations-and-Compassion, 9. Authenticity-and-Balance, 10. Sharing-and-Compromises. Domineering-Bullies are Insecure and Seek-Security in Alienative-Coalitions of Like-Minded people with Like-Mind-Sets - - - Demanding Conformity to Compensate for - - - Their-Own-Insecurity. They put an emphasis upon being "Like-Minded-and-Unified - - - With Purity-In-Conformity which Undermines-Authenticity - - - Because Personal-AND-Communal Integrity are Never Foci-For-Their-Attention. "Unity" which is bought at the price of Honesty-and-Integrity - - - Undermines both Civility-and-Civilization. "Purity" and "Perfection" which are bought by Winning Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - Lead to Tragic-Conclusions-and-Outcomes within Disintegrative-Traditions - - - Within Alienative-Conflicts that we do not Mitigate - - - because they are "Profitable". Domineering-Bullies do NOT lead-people-out-of-such Destructive-Patterns and Dysfunctional-Behaviors - - - which are "Profitable"; Because their Core-Dispositions all lead to Alienative-Behaviors-and-Conflicts - - - which are "Profitable". Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are Systematically-Disposed to Avoid becoming involved in Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - which are "Profitable". The Essential-Foundations for Civility and Civilization include: Creativity Open-and-Honest-Dialogues Cooperation Colaboration Hospitality Integrative-Processes Integrities Balance Generosity Mutual-Respect-and-Honor Consideration Kindness Which are augmented by True-Lovers Being-Together in Shalom's May-Gracious-Ways. The Essential-Foundations for Civility and Civilization are NOT-AUGMENTED by Domineering-Bullies' Most-Powerful: Demands Commands Prescriptions Sanctions Prisons Proscriptions Excommunications Punishments Denigrations Armies Coalitions Air-Forces Missiles Nuclear-Weapons Suicide-Bombers Contentions Negations Polarizations Collusive-Games Facilitating-Many Mutual-Self-Deceptions ICBM-Quick-Deliveries Mutually-Assured-Destruction with Nuclear-Hydrogen-Bombs