Where are our Central-Tragic-Conflicts? What are their natures? Whenever Domineering-Bullies object to and/or fail-to-tolerate Open-and-Honest- Communications - - - they generate Alienative-Conflicts and Patterns-of-Alienative- Conflicts - - - by which they Exclude-Themselves-Form Sanctuaries that are built by True-Lovers for ALL-who-wish-to-Enjoy them as Safe-Places for Open-and-Honest- Communications, Love, and Healthy-Intimacies. Domineering-Bullies thus make themselves insecure, fearful and vulnerable; because they have excluded-themselves from All-Safe-Sanctuaries for Healthy- Intimacies which are the Foundations-for-True-Security-and-Relaxation-and-Re- Creation through Reconciliations and the Mitigations-of-our-own-Alienative- Conflicts. Domineering-Bullies can Mitagate Their-Own: Insecurity, Fears, Anxieties and Terrors ONLY by Understanding-the-Above; and by Letting-Go of their Objections to and Intolerance of Open-and-HOnest Intimate-Communications Between-and-Among True-Lovers In-Love in the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom. So long as Domineering-Bullies continue to maintain their objections-to and intolerance-of - - - Open-and-Honest-Communications Between-and-Among True- Lovers in True-Sanctuaries - - - their Alienative-Conflicts cannot be mitigated by themselves or by anyone else. They need True-Lovers-Help! But, usually they cannot be honest about their needs. What can Mitigators of Alienative- Conflicts do to break the log jam? The Tragedy is that there continues within Individual-Domineering-Bullies a terrible conflict between their authentic need for intimacy that involves Open- and-Honest-Dialogue - - - and their fears of the vulnerabilities that go go with true-intimacies - - - to the extent that there is any open-and-honest-intimacy. Our Central-Tragic-Conflicts exist within Individual-Domineering-Bullies - - - as isolated persons; and as isolated-gangs, coalitions and communities. The Gracious-Mitigations of Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts cannot-move-foward - - - in the absence of our Openly-and-Honestly-Addressing where our Central-Tragic- Conflicts exist, and what are the natures of our Central-Tragic-Conflicts wherever they do exist and persist.
Domineering-Bullies do-not-know  How-to-Distinguish-Between; and 
                                 How-to-Deal-With the Differences-Between:
Healthy-Occasions-of-Vulnerability within healthy-intimacies; and in contrast: Unhealth-Occasions-of-Vulnerability within "Violent-Intimacies" - - - because Domineering-Bullies usually have not experienced many occasions of the former, and mistake the latter for the former. Domineering-Bullies are thus unable to Mitigate Their-Own Alieantive-Conflicts and fear to enter into Open-and-Honest-Dialogues wherein they might learn - - - what they need to learn. To Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - we must find ways to help Take- Apart The-Above-Log-Jam!