Because of the fact that humane mortals have limited: 1. Life-Spans, 2. Energy and Strength for Physical-Activities, and involvements in inter-personal-relationships, 3. Abilities to Learn and Remember Facts and/or Information, and how to understand personal-relationships, 4. Abilities to Understand and Respond-Graciously within : Complex Objective-and-Reflexive Relationships, 5. Abilities to Influence and/or Control: Objects, People, Objective-Relationships, and Reflexive-Relationships, 6. Abilities to Focus-Simultaneously on many Conflicting: Concerns, Issues, Priorities and Alienative-Conflicts; 7. Abilities to Balance Committments to various: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Aspirations, etc. Many people become trapped within Alienative-Conflicts within-themselves - - - and within Alienative-Conflicts with other people who are committed to:Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc.; which are Inherently In-Conflict with-each-other. Conclusion: None of us can reasonably hope to totally-avoid: involvements in and/or complicity in Alienative-Conflicts. Conclusion: All of us need to learn how to cooperate with each other in-the-midst-of seeking to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts. Conclusion: We can do no good by trying-to-WIN: any Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. We need to LET-Go of-them and openly-and-honestly discuss what such Futile-Games are trying to HIDE! There is nothing of worth, to WIN in them!