How can we Graciously Avoid Being-Victimized by Our-Own-BEST: 1. Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Expectations, etc? 2. Communities? 3. Domineering-Bullies? 4. Mobbing-Mobsters? 5. Economic-Systems? 6. Enemies' Hospitality and Generosity? 7. National-Supporters? 8. Patriots? 9. National Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes? 10. Alienative-Conflicts? Can we do it by copying their Life-Styles and the Foundations of those Life-Styles? What other inadequately tried alternatives - - - might we discover and try-out more thoughtfully and with integrity? How might we cooperate with each other in Mitigating Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts with the above kinds of people? ======================================================================================================================== We need to focus our attention upon Mitigating Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts Within-US and Among-US by working on: Letting-GO of ALL of our OWN PREOCCUPATIONS WITH ALIENATIVE: Conflicts Ideals Values Virtues Principles Habits Traditions Rituals Beliefs Doctrines Actions Defenses Egocentrisms Demands Commands Idols ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ We need to focus more thoughtfully, graciously, intentionally, generously, sensitively and empathetically upon: True-Lovers Sesitivity Empathy Sympaathy Generosity Hospitality Reconciliations Integrity Cooperation Colaboration Basic-Needs Healthy-Needs Shalom Being-Together Creativity