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Being-AUTHENTIC-TRUE-LOVERS is a continuing-process; rather than a "state" or "status" that is "achieved". THEY ARE ENGAGED IN an enduring-process of Being-Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Many-Diverse-Ways of Open-and-Honest- Dialogue about ALL-PARTICIPANTS': O. Within God's-Crew of God's-Astronomically-Tiny Space-Ship-Earth with finite supplies of Essential-Material-Resources. 1. Basic-Essential-Humane-Needs as they evolve, are met, change, grow, etc. 2. Evolving-Alienative-Conflicts - - - Among their Evolving: Ideas, Ideals, Values, Principles, Perspectives, Points-of View, Assumptions, Beliefs, Convictions, Risks, Fears, Terrors, Virtues, Vices, etc. 3. Misunderstandings, Blunders, Mistakes, Errors, Tragedies, Accidents, Catastrophes, Friendships, Intimacies, Fears, Terrors, Risks, etc. 4. Disappointments, Hurts, Alienations, Reconciliations, Cooperations and Collaborations. 5. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues with each other about people who do NOT understand them and/or fear them because of all of the above aspects of their lives. 6. Need for both Intimacy-and-Private-Times within which to gain new: Perspectives, Insights, Experiences and helpful mutual understandings. 7. Experiences of: Domination, Mobbing, Mobsters, Anxiety, Fears, Anxiety, Terrors, Violence, Conformity, Creativity, Revelations, Visions, Dreams, Desires, Pleasures and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. 8. Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses of their: Contexts, Environments, Opportunities, Risks, Threats, Ideals, Values, Principles, Concerns, Friends, Intimate-Relationships, Taboos, and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. 9. Needs for External-Perspective upon their own relationships as seen/experienced by "outsiders" and their needs to seek advice which is worthless if it is not sought-and-asked for in gracious and prudent ways. 10. Needs to recognize, acknowledge and describe all participants": limitations, limits, constraints, prejudices, biases, provincialisms and remaining realms of risky deficiencies within each of them and within each of their relationships.