Domineering-Bullies seek to Succeed-in-Domination by using Alienative: Tools, Technologies, Means and Procedures --- to Gain for themselves:

1. Advantages over others; 2. Control over Concentrations of Wealth and Powers; 3. Admiration, Attention, Respect, Honor, Trust; 4. The ability to predict outcomes of their efforts; 5. Many-Supporters in terms of Money, Advertisements and Honors, 6. Control over Alienative-Conflicts and News-about-Alienative-Conflicts. True lovers who are Seeking-to-Help-Others who are victims of and/or participants within Alienative-Conflicts --- To-Mitigate Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts --- Must gain clear credibility in such Gracious-Efforts by:

1. Renouncing in Clear-and-Public-Ways the Alienative-Aspects of the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies --- including all their Central Manipulative/Unilateral: Assumptions, Attitudes, Approaches, Logic, Reasoning, Strategies, Tactics, Desires, Goals, Planning, Technologies, Sciences, Convictions, Doctrines and Liturgies.

2. Demonstrating in Clear-and-Public-Ways that they are Letting-Go-In-Practice of what they Have-Renounced by Acting in Clear-and-Public-Ways that show that they are Fully-Committed to Being Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Gracious-Ways --- that Transcend-in-Action the Life- Styles of Domineering-Bullies --- by Letting-Go of all of the Alienative Core Features --- so as to be able to Augment: Trust, Reconciliation, Healing, Cooperation, Hospitality, Generosity, Sharing and Open-and-Honest-Dialogue with all Neighbors in Space-Ship-Earth.

Central in the above processes of Letting-Go of the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies --- are the transcendences of:

1. Supporting Alienative-Excommunications-of-Traitors through Respect for, Belief in and/or Tolerance-Toward Alienative-Excommunications of Traitors who undermine: Alienative-Punishments of Traitors who do not show tolerance, respect, support and reverence toward the Good-Life- Styles of Superior-Domineering-Bullies.

2. The Fear-of-Excommunications Imposed-by-Good-Domineering-Bullies and by those Good-People who show tolerance of, respect-for and reverence towards Good-Excommunications of Evil-People.

3. The Fear-of-Healthy-Intimacies among True-Lovers within the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom in LOVE.

(c) 2009 by Paul A. Smith in Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)