The meaning of each humane incarnation, statement and/or affirmation --- depends upon the level of integrity-and-authenticity of the people who are in open-and-honest-dialogue --- graciously-together in the many integrative ways of Shalom. Thus, Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing- Mobsters living in their extreme life-styles'-ways --- do not share with each other any truly-meaningful-affirmations, statements of-what-is- reliably-true, or revelations-of-the-natures-of-transcendent-realities of any kind kind.

It is futile to presume to know, contain or control any truth which transcends the reflexive-personal-relationships of the "most-superior" people who presume to be qualified to apprehend any such transcendent and/or ultimately reliable truth.

What is true within human-reflexive relationships --- depends upon the: quality, nature, authenticity, integrity and character of the humane- reflexive-relationships; and upon what the participants in the intimacies of the relationships can and do --- share reliably with each other --- and so with those who provide the supportive communal contexts for the survival of the humane-reflexive-relationships.

People who are trying to win collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception --- whose rules are Taboo-to-Reveal --- cannot apprehend the meaning of any transcendently-true-statement --- which is repressed/denied within their collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception. We cannot know-and-share-truths which transcend our collusive-games-of--mutual self deception about our:

1. Mortality, 2. Sexuality, 3. Intimacies, 4. Reflexive-Relationships, 5. Doctrines, 6. Limits, 7. Limitations, 8. Kinds of Ignorance, 9. Kinds of Blindness, 10. Kinds of Insensitivity, etc.

To the extend that we are trying to apprehend any absolutely-transcendent- truth which transcends the: authenticity, coherence, integrity and sustainability of our own best personal-and-communal integrative-processes- and-integrations --- we are trying to win our tragically-futile collusive- games of mutual-self-deception --- at each other's expense. In that way we win nothing; because of our win-lose assumptions and/or mentality.

The human dilemma is that all forms of human communication-and-intimacy depend upon words, phrases, gestures, actions and symbols --- that convey the same meaning and significance to all the people involved in a communication. To the extent that the people involved, and their supportive communities, revere, respect, honor, support or tolerate the Life-Styles of Domineering- Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters --- reliable communications of complex and subtle shades of meaning --- are impossible. This is why it is essential that we work graciously to help people to mitigate their own Alienative- conflicts and costs of communication-blunders.

The above referenced-communication-dilemma of course complicates the challenges encountered in trying to communicate insights, visions, and hopes about mitigating-alienative-conflicts that are embodied in the lives of Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters --- Playing-to-Win their Futile- Games of Mutual-Self-Deception, at each other's expense. Those Games inhibit the evolution of any language which is adequate for the task of providing a Conceptual-Framework for Graciously-Helping People to See-and- Mitigate their own Alienative-Conflicts.

The Perversion/Confusion of Communications-which-are-Essential in Shalom's- Gracious-Mitigations-of-Alienative-Conflicts --- are Skillfully-Crafted- Denigrations which flow from the Alienative-Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies- and-Mobbing-Mobsters --- who make Virtues-appear-to-be-Vices --- and Vices-to-Appear-to-be-Virtues.

Dommineering-Bullies make the following to appear to be Virtues: The Perversion/Confusion of Communications-which-are-Essential in Shalome's- Gracious-Mitigations-of-Alienative-Conflicts. Those perversions are Skillfully- Crafted-Denigrations which flow from the Alienative-Life-Styles of Domineering- Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters --- who routinly make Virtues-to-appear-to-be-Vices; --- and Vices-to-Appear-top-be-Virtues.

1. Greed in Just-Wars is Good; as Greed facilitates the Great-Profits for Great-Corporations of the Growing-Military-Industrial-Complexts that are need to Win Unilateral-Superiority over Strange-People who are: Poor, Sick, Ignorant, Confused, Evil and in the Service-of-the-Devil --- and so are essentially inferior to the United-Nations of our Superior-Coalition-of-Mobbing-Mobsters; united in our Good-War against Evil-Terrorism which has infected God's-Space-Ship-Earth.

2. In our essential War-against-Terrorism it is Essential that we use Terroism- Well to Beat-Essential-Truths out of Evil-People who were Infected with Terrorism by the Devil.

a. We must know Who-is-Evil, what they have done and plan to do, and Who-is-Good and must defeat all Evil for the Good-of-US.

b. We must Torture-the-Essential-Truths out of Evil-People by the use of Secret- Superior-Extraction-Technologies that are reserved for use only in the secret support of winning our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

c. We must protect our faithful servants who win for US, our Collusive-Games-of- Mutual-Self-Deception --- in our Just-War against Terrorism Around-the-World.

d. If we ever relax, we will lose our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception! Beware of Relaxation, Medition combined with Prayer.

(c) 2009 by Paul A. Smith in Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)