The Tools-for-Control which Domineering-Bullies most often use --- tend toward generating: Distrust, Suspicion, Fears, Resentment, Anxiety, Terror, Terrorism and Alienation --- among competitors for: security, safety, invulnerability, tranquility, health, integrity, shalom, love, intimacy, etc.

Domineering-Bullies who are in-competeition with each other, tend to cooperate in destroying what they most need; i.e.: mutual-trust, mutual-respect, mutual-cooperation, and mutual-love.

Domineering-Bullies tend to generate Cultures-of-Scarcity regarding what is most needed for Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and- Integrities --- thus augmenting tendencies to Concentrate-Mere- Symbols-of-Success in Alienated-Isolation.

Domineering-Bullies cannot as Bullies Concentrate what they most need: Trust, Security, Safety, Tranquility, Health, Integrity, Shalom, Love, Intimacy, etc. --- because those realities cannot be controlled or manipulated.

The Truly-Essential-Realities are destroyed by efforts to unilaterally control, manipulate, regulate or concentrate and/or preserve them for a select superior few people.

The Truly-Essential-Realities are Truly-Reflexive-Realities which no mortals can control, manage or dominate --- as some people control, manage and/or dominate Lifeless-Objects which rarely enter into meaningful Truly-Reflexive Intimate-Personal-Relationships with True-Lovers in LOVE. (c) 2009 by Paul A. Smith in Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)