Domineering-Bullies regularly reject healthy intimate relationships among True-Lovers --- whom they cannot control --- because the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies focus upon pretentious attempts to Be-In-Control of realities which cannot be honestly controlled with integrity by anybody; e.g., Reflexive-Intimate-Personal-Relationships which involve Open-and-Honest-Dialoge about: 1. Most basic Humane Needs --- too often not fulfilled for the poor and vulnerable among us. 2. Excessive-Concentrations of Wealth, Powers and Luxuries. 3. All forms of Alienative-Conflicts within our neighborhoods and communities. 4. All forms of Alienation-and-Excommunication within our neighborhoods and communities. 5. Systemic-Denials of Distributive-Justice within the Crew of Space-Ship-Earth. 6. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. 7. Addicts and their Codependent-Supporters engaged in Domineering-Life-Styles. 8. Mitigations-of-our-own-Alienative-Conflicts. Open-and-Honest-Dialogue about the above topics are Taboo to Domineering-Bullies, because such dialogues acknowledge that the foci of the Dialogue cannot be controlled with integrity.