The Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom show that: The Transcendence-of-the-Life-Style which Drives-Domineering-Bullies; occurs within True-Lovers'-Relationships; within Communal-Sanctuaries for all. True-Lovers demonstrate within their Open-and-Honest-Dialogues --- their Mutual-Acceptance of the Practice-of-the-Presence-of-God in Accepting-each-other's Practice-of-Letting-Go of Intolerance toward True-Intimacies among True-Lovers-Together in the Practice-of-the-Presence- of-God. The Life-Style-of-Domineering-Bullies includes intolerance toward True-Lovers who are Demonstrating their Mutual-Tolerance of the Practice-of-Letting-Go-of-Intolerance --- toward True-Intimacies which violate the HIDDEN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception which the Life-Style of Domineering-Bullies drives them to try to Win --- by Excluding-Each- Other who is "different" and who does not Properly-Conform to the Hidden-Rules-of-the-Games.