Course Keys ****
To Graciously-Facilitate  other's  efforts Mitigate Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts --- we must 
seek to imagine ourselves in their contexts, and to listen intently to what they have to say
to us, and then try-to-understand-sympathetically-with-empathy:

 1. How-and-Why they will be likely to resist getting involved in Graciously-Mitigating

 2. How-and-Why they will be likely to play many Traditionally-Honored Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception --- about the Costs-and-Benefits of their own Traditional-Alienative-

 3. The "Logic" of Domineering-Bullies' Life-Styles --- as seen/experienced by Domineering-
Bullies who are comfortable with that "Logic".

 4. How Foolish all efforts to Graciously-Mitigate-Alienative-Conflicts will appear --- to
people who are trapped in the Prisons-of-Domineering-Bullies' Life-Styles.

 5. How-and-Why the Miracles occur of transitions from seeing such Prisons only from the
provincial point-of-view of being "secure" inside of them --- to seeing the same prisons
from the less-provincial-perspectives of being outside of those prisons which are recognized
as the same places they were before the Miracles.