Course Keys **** The Dilemmas that we have with Domineering-Bullies are rooted in their Egocentric-Life-Styles WHEREIN: 1. There is always some unilateral demand for MORE of something: Conformity, Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Taboos, Loyalty-to-Leaders, Perfection, Standards, Judgements, Constraints, Exclusivity, Shunnings, Excommunications - - - ALL of which are Alienative and Augment-Alienative-Conflicts - - - which "plow the ground" for Domineering-Bullies to plant more seeds for-their-kinds of weeds. 2. There are virtually no grounds in Domineering-Bullies' Egocentric-Life-Styles for: A. The Gracious-Mitigation of any Alienative-Conflicts of any kind. b. WINNING any Mandatory Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception that are designed to make the Life-Styles-of- Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters - - - SEEM: sensable, honorable and TO-BE God's Will-for-US. c. For learning from Our-Own-Experiences when we: Stumble, Trip, Fall-Down, Fail, etc. d. For anticipating and adapting to environmental changes which we cannot: control, manage, or understand - - - - because of our limited: knowledge, insights, understandings, resources, powers, energies, and life-times. e. For recognizing the differences between What-We-Cannot: Change, Understand, Predict, Infulence or Control - - - and What-We-Can-and-Must: Change, Understand, Predict, Influence and Control. f. For recognizing the differences between what is for US - - - - Truly-Possible-and-Essential; and what is for US - - - - Truly-Impossible-and-Unimportant.