Course Keys **** Some of the most challenging threats to our personal and communal integrations and integrities - - - take the form of Systemic-Absences. It is more difficult to "see" that-which-is-absent, than it is to see what is irritatingly-present. Yet it is important to consider the threats to our integrities due to the ABSENCE OF any of the following realities: Love Generosity Hospitality Knowledge Dialogue Listening Honesty Empathy Mutuality Understanding Balance Gentleness Grace Sympathy Healing Forgiveness Tenderness Patience Forbearance Joy Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters often achieve their greedy purposes, by tricking us into accepting the ABSENCE of the above realities as being: normal, natural, necessary, nice, etc. We get to the point that by habit we feel that the absences are: normal, proper, helpful, required and keys to our success. In fact, we often get to the point that it seems to us that the "absences" are essential and necessary; and that the contrasting "presences" are: distractions, debilitating, intolerable and offensive - - - which in fact they are - - - to Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters and to their Life-Styles. In the instances of the above absences - - - we need to recognize what essential foundations for personal and communal integrations and integrities are absent; and to say why they are essentials to healthy living - - - because they play essential roles in all people's efforts to Mitigate Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts and the Bitter-Fruits-Thereof.