Course Keys **** Every-effort of every-person and coalition-of-persons takes place within the context of some set of generally accepted elements in the following Seven-Fold-List: 1. Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Vices, etc. 2. Accepted-and-Honored Techniques, Technologies and Technocrats preoccupied with such means. 3. Alienative-Conflicts involving the above realities. 4. Patterns of Concentrations of Wealth-and-Powers --- and isolated people benefiting from them. 5. Conceptions of How-to-Control the above and related: Threats, Fears, Terrors and Anxieties. 6. Conceptions of various Kinds of Important-Real-Relationships; Objective, Reflexive, Ideological, etc. 7. Conceptions of what is Possible and/or Impossible in various realms of Relationships. Domineering-Bullies resist others' efforts to engage them in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about what they take-for-granted regarding the elements of their: life-styles, contexts, challenges, conflicts, contentions, callings, causes; their Concentrations of Excessive/Alienative Wealth-and-Powers and Controls that are needed to maintain/dominate them. The Gracious-Mitigation-of-Alienative-Conflicts by Participant-Victims depends in critical ways upon the Gracious- Mitigation of the Alienative-Behaviors of Contentious-Domineering-Bullies and their related Mobbing-Mobsters; for they are often Incarnations-of-the-Essences of the Alienative-Conflicts found in their Alienative-Simplistic-Ideologies that Lead-The-Blind into Tragic-Outcomes which they cannot: understand, figure out or avoid with-understanding. Gracious-Facilitators of Mitigations-of-Alienative-Conflicts generally do not accept the same elements in the above seven-fold-list; as do Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters; so The-Former focus upon ways of being Graciously- Together - - - rather than focus upon ways of being - - - Contentiously-Together --- as in the instance of The-Latter. Within God's Astronomically-Tiny Space-Ship-Earth with its soon Exponentially-Dwindling-Scarce-Pure-Material-Resources --- because of current Exponentially-Growing Rates-of-Consumption --- the above will all play central roles in whether or-not --- any humane civilization will long be robust and sustainable within the contexts of Integrative-Processes and Present-Integrities. First, we will have to Mitigate our patterns of trying to WIN our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception about many of the above realities! It is time to start Mitigating our own Alienative-Conflicts!