Course keys **** It is often exceedingly difficult to DISTINGUISH what tragic-consequences flow from Misleading- but-HONORED: ideals, values, motives, motivations, principles, assumptions, virtues and vices; in contrast to from ALIENATIVE: GREED, COVETOUSNESS, RESENTMENTS, ANGER, FEARS, TERRORS, REVENGE, ARROGANCE, SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS, INTOLERANCE, EXCLUSIVITY, and other related tragic-realities. To facilitate the gracious-mitigation of our own Alienative-Conflicts --- we thus need to Sort- Out the: reconciling, authentic, integrative, healthy and long-term-sustainable IDENTIFICATIONS of and DESCRIPTIONS of truly-integrative: ideals, motives, values, motivations, virtues and vices --- from those that are driven-and-guided by: greed, covetousness, resentment, anger, fears, terrors, revenge, arrogance, self-righteousness, intolerance, exclusivity, shunnings, excommunications, and other closely related tragic realities within our selves and within our communities. Often the confusions alluded to above are generated by people trying to WIN their own Collusive- Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception --- which can NEVER-BE-WON because excellence in SELF-DECEPTION is NEVER a winning strategy-or-tactic within any context! The Mitigation of our own Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - is far more likely to be a winning-strategy and/or tactic --- within every context!