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%RELATIONSHIPS AMONG TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING SELF 050404 %ALIENATED INDIVIDUALISTS IDEALISTS PURIFIERS OTHER 050404 %CONTRAST EVOLUTION COOPERATE CONTEND UNITER FIGHTS 050404 %WINNERS LOSERS COMPETE ATTACK RECONCILE CONTROL IT 050404 %THEM THEY EVIL ENEMY LABEL DEFINE REFINE COMMANDS 050404 %LAWS ORDERS IDEAL FORMALITIES VALUES MORAL JUDGES 050404 The Relationships-of-True-Lovers and The Relationships-of-Domineering-Individuals Evolve in Contrasting-Ways: True-Lovers Cooperate In-Letting-Go of Elements of The-Domination-System, In Cooperatively-Managing The-Risks-of-Intimacy. Domineering-Individuals Seek-To-Refine/Improve Elements of The-Domination-System In Trying-To-Control The-Risks-of-Alienation. True-Lovers Know-Each-Other More-and-More Intimately As They-Help Each-Other Trust-Each-Other; In-Letting-Go of Elements of The-Domination-System: Secrecy, Misleading-Behaviors, Managing-Appearances, Pretending-To-Be-Authentic, Cosmetic-Changes/Being, Superficialities, Formalities, Pure-Rituals, Goals, Wealth-Concentrations, Power-Concentrations, Accumulations-of: Things, Technologies, Facts, Information, Secrets, Defenses, Weapons, Detectors, Spies, Lies, Collusions, Addictions, Codependents, Servants, Slaves, Administrators, Loyalists, etc. Domineering-People Alienate-Each-Other More-and-More A They-Contend With-Each-Other over Which-ONE-Will Most-Systematically-And-Successfully: Dominate, Control, Command, Purify, Judge, Label, Punish, Conform, Formalize, Idealize, Evaluate, Dictate, Interpret, Violate, Coerce, Manage, Yield, Win, Lose, Gain, Serve, Risk, Determine, Endure, Bias, Prejudice, Confuse, Repress, Suppress: OTHERS. True-Lovers Cooperate-Within-Integrative-Efforts. Domineering-Leaders Disintegrate-in-Contentious-Acts True-Lovers Gain-Balanced-Mutual-Understandings. Domineering-Leaders Lose-What-They-Try-To-Gain/Get. True-Lovers Transcend Collusions-Addictions-Lies. Domineering-Leaders Fall-Into-Most-Such-Black-Holes. True-Lovers Find-Security in Safe-Vulnerability. Domineering-Leaders Lose-Security As-Invulnerability. True-Lovers Unilaterally-Control No-Poor-People. Domineering-Leaders Try-To-Control All-Poor-People. True-Lovers Frame-Conflicts in Open-Doors-of-Love. Domineering-Leaders Frame-Conflicts in Black-Holes. True-Lovers Shed-Light-Upon Disintegrative-Mysteries. Domineering-Leaders Turn-off-Lights For-Mysteries. True-Lovers Demonstrate the Mysteries-of-Love. Domineering-Leaders Pretend-to-Concentrate-Grace. True-Lovers Facilitate-Open-and-Honest Dialogue. Domineering-Leaders Inhibit All-Honest-Dialogue. True-Lovers Demonstrate Humility-and-Reverence Domineering-Leaders Demonstrate Arrogant-Hubris. True-Lovers Facilitate all kind forms of integrity. Domineering-Leaders create forms of disintegration. =================================================== Children do not grow up to be True-Lovers --- unless they live within True-Sanctuaries, and find that in Letting-Go-of-All-Elements of The Domination-System; they Wake-Up-Knowing Each-Other within Intimate-Love which Demonstrates True-Shalom-Security. Children of many Domineering-Leaders live within the Fortress-of-The-Domination-System which banishes all Risky-Forms-of: Intimacy, Honesty, Dialogue, Trust, Cooperation, Vulnerability, Sexuality, Letting-Go; and has mis-lead millions of people into Tragically Idealistic-Crusades, Wars, and Deaths. Be-Shalom! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================