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  %TRUE-LOVERS DOMINEERING-PEOPLE APPROACH MEETINGS 040930
%TRANSACTIONAL SYSTEMS ANALYSIS INTEGRATION HONESTY 040930
%SEE HEAR FEEL SMELL TASTE KNOWELEDGE WHO DEVILS IT 040930
%THOU SACRED HOLY REVERENCE SEXUAL UNDERSTAND ANGEL 040930
%FALLEN POWERS BEING TOGETHER COOPERATIVE PRESCRIBE 040930
%UNILATERAL WIN LOSE COMPETE CONTROL SALVATION GODS 040930

     True-Lovers  and  Domineering-People   approach each-
other  and  relate to each-other  in  differing  ways  ---
depending within each-meeting upon how the-other is inter-
relating within the current meeting with other(s).

     Much depends upon  (a)  How-well  and  (b)  With what
kinds-of-integrities,  True-Lovers and Domineering-People:

     1.  Approach each-other.
     2.  See-each-other.
     3.  Hear-each-other.
     4.  Feel-each-other.
     5.  Smell-each-other.
     6.  Taste-each-other.
     7.  Know-each-other.
     8.  Perceive each-other.
     9.  Understand each-other.
    10.  Describe each-other.
    11.  Tolerate each-other's differences.
    12.  Seek to relate to each-other.
    13.  Reveal-themselves to-each-other.
    14.  Conceal-themselves from-each-other.
    15.  Cooperate-with each-other.
    16.  Colaborate-with each-other.
    17.  Inter-relate-with each-other.
    18.  Are-intimate-with each-other.
    19.  Are-dominate-with each-other.
    20.  Are-contentious-with each-other.
    21.  Are-violent-with each-other.
    22.  Are-disintegrative-with each-other.
    23.  Are-integrative-with each-other.
    24.  Are-objective-with each-other as-objects.
    25.  Are-reflexive-with each-other as-authentic-ones.
    26.  Are-lovers-with each-other as-true-lovers.
    27.  Are-contestants-with each-other in-competitions.
    28.  Unilaterally-decide who-wins and who-loses.
    29.  Cooperatively-create true-sanctuaries for-all.
    30.  Cooperatively-share sweet-fruits of-all-labors.

     We cannot long be UNILATERALLY:

     1.  Right,
     2.  Righteous,
     3.  Well,
     4.  Wealthy,
     5.  Healthy,
     6.  Powerful,
     7.  Secure,
     8.  Invulnerable,
     9.  True,
    10.  Gracious,
    11.  Generous,
    12.  Saviors,
    13.  Saved,
    14.  Healers,
    15.  Democratic,
    16.  Rescuers,
    17.  Holy,
    18.  Sacred,
    19.  Reverent,
    20.  Humble,
    21.  Godly,
    22.  Ideal-forms,
    23.  Perfect,
    24.  Pure,
    25.  Independent,
    26.  Complete,
    27.  Ourselves,
    28.  Controllers,
    29.  Dominant,
    30.  Eternal.

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     True-Lovers  more-often know-and-acknolwedge what the
above-words point-toward --- than do Domineering-People.

     Neither True-Lovers nor Domineering-People fully-know
or acknowledge all that the above-words point-toward.

     Domineering-People  often  play   collusive-games-of-
mutual-self-deception  in-regards-to what the  above-words
point-toward.

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     True-Lovers   often-cooperate  in  facilitating   and
promoting      personal-and-communal     integrations-and-
integrities.

     Neither True-Lovers nor Domineering-People fully-know
or enjoy all possible integrations or integrities.

     Domineering-People  often  act-unilaterally  in  ways
which    lead   toward   both   personal   and    communal
disintegrations.

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     True-Lovers   seek-to-live  within   The-Ways-Of-Love
which   transcend-and-subvert  the  unilateral-powers  of:
rules,   laws,   prescriptions,   proscriptions,   taboos,
demands,  commands,   scripts,   scriptures,   traditions,
formulas, formalities, ideal-forms, conformity, etc.

     Neither True-Lovers nor Domineering-People fully-know
or  enjoy all the integrative-possiblities of The-Ways-Of-
Love.

     Domineering-People  often  act-unilaterally  in  ways
which lead  away from The-Ways-of-Love, and toward all  of
the  possibilities of the disintegrations of  all  people,
communities and their environments.

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     True-Lovers   persistently   seek   to   respond   to
Domineering-People   in  Love's-Ways  --- which  are  Not-
Unilateral,     Not-Domineering,   Not-Coercive  and  Not-
Violent.

     Neither True-Lovers nor Domineering-People fully-know
nor fully-enjoy all of Love's-Mutually-Complementary-Ways.

     Domineering-People    UNILATERALLY  seek   to   take-
advantage  of  all possible Legal-Ways,   Formal-Ways  and
Technocratic-Tools    to    dominate    True-Lovers    and
Domineering-People --  while  just they THEMSELF are being
invulnerable.

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     Be Cooperatively-Together In-Peace, not in pieces.

                               Shalom

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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