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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PEACEMAKING ALIENATION MITIGATION RELATIONSHIPS 031003 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL DISINTEGRATION NEGATIVE IMPACTS 031003 %OPEN HONEST GRACIOUS COMMUNICATIONS DEVILS LOVERS 031003 %TRUE TRUTHS COMPLEMENTARY ENEMIES VALUES IDEALS 031003 %INHIBIT REPRESS SUPRESS BLOCK PERVERT DIVERT TABOO 031003 %DENIGRATE PUNISH RIDICULE FORMAL STANDARD OBJECTS 031003 To deal helpfully/effectively with ALIENATION as the dominant feature of, and perhaps the essence of, OUR EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS (which occasion both personal and communal disintegrations) --- we need to recognize the diverse negative impacts upon OPEN, HONEST and GRACIOUS communications --- due to the presence of EVIL- RELATIONSHIPS which are dominated by ALIENATION. Negative impacts can include: 1. Inhibitions, repressions, supressions, blockages. 2. Perversions, diversions, scramblings, confusions. 3. Prohibitions, regulations, censorship, taboos. 4. Denigrations, punishments, ridicules. 5. Formalizations, regulations, standarizations. 6. Depersonalizations, objectifications, fragmentations. 7. Tracking, recording, archieving, classifying. 8. Evaluating, interpreting, explaining, complaining. The more we are involved in RELATIONSHIPS which are dominated by ALIENATION --- the more often we are likely to be impacted in ways suggested above. We will do well, and more often be well if we work on mitigating alienation in our relationships. We cannot be more healthy without mitigating extant alienation. We cannot mitigate extant alienation --- without increasing the frequency and depth of communications which are open, honest, gracious and mutually satisfying. Such sweet fruits cannot be grown or enjoyed UNILATERALLY. EVIL- RELATIONSHIPS cannot be mitigated in the absence of growing relationships which are open, honest, gracious, civil, cooperative, and mutually satisfying. The traditional efforts of men to eliminate "EVIL" have usually included attempts at the UNILATERAL managment/control of: coalitions, threats, coercion, violence, and destructive-attacks. Such traditional attempts by men to eliminate "EVIL" have generated increases in RELATIONSHIPS which are dominated by ALIENATION. This has been accomplished UNILATERALLY by augmenting ALIENATION in existing relationships, and by initiating new relationships which are dominated by ALIENATION. Such UNILATERAL efforts have regularly yielded more bitter fruits than sweet fruits for the vast majority of those who have become involved. The survivers have rarely learned helpful lessons from the bitter outcomes of such UNILATERAL efforts --- so the UNILATERAL attempts to eliminate "EVIL" continue in the traditional ineffective ways. EVIL cannot be eliminated UNILATERALLY. EVIL can be eliminated only through COOPERATIVE efforts among the people who are trapped in EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS. Major changes must occur within such people for them to become able to engage in COOPERATIVE efforts! Such changes usually are initiated by true-lovers who are truly involved in open and honest relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================