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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HEALTHY COMPLEMENTARY PEOPLE TRUE LOVERS BEHAVIORS+030926 %WORDS DEEDS AFFIRMATIONS DEMONSTRATIONS INTENTIONS+030926 %MOTIVATIONS COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER DIFFERENT PEOPLE+030926 %AVOID EXCLUSIVE DENIGRATIONS IDEALS VALUES GOALS+030926 %MUTUAL BALANCE ENJOYMENT PLEASURES INTIMACIES SINS+030926 %ADDICTION CODEPENDENT COLLUSIONS POWER CONCENTRATE 030926 Healthy complementary people seek through each of their verbal and behavioral affirmations --- to demonstrate their own intent --- to complement each other's affirmations --- of their diverse values, ideals, principles & goals. Each healthy person seeks to make clear to each different other person --- that they themselves seek to avoid making exclusive affirmations which denigrate other people's different but healthy affirmations --- of complementary ideals, values, principles and goals. At the same time that each healthy person is affirming one of their own mutually complementary values, ideals, principles and/or goals --- they are seeking to help all other persons to become aware of how their own affirmations of their own favored ideals, values, principles and goals --- can helpfully be seen as being complementary to those of other people who are seen as being "different." Healthy people seek to make their integrative intents and motivations clear, transparent and acceptable to- and by "different" people. Healthy people are true lovers --- who help each other to avoid falling into the patterns of thoughts and behaviors --- which are commonly seen in: addictions, codependencies, collusions, power concentrations, arrogations, unilateral isolations and pretentious- excommunications. True lovers do not seek to hide or obscure their true intentions and/or motivations. True lovers do not try to achieve invulnerability --- at the expense of other "different" people becoming more: vulnerable, sick, thirsty, dis eased, diseased, hungry, powerless, hopeless, frustrated, angry, rebellious, exclusive and/or terrorized. True lovers help each other person create and enjoy communal sanctuaries --- within which many different people affirm many complementary values, ideals, principles and goals --- by exchanging gifts of the freedom to know true- security in the freedom to be safely vulnerable --- with many different people --- within webs of intimate relationships --- that are open, honest, authentic, and mutually complementary. True lovers work cooperatively upon improving their mutually satisfying relationships --- NOT upon "improving" all "defective" and "different" individuals in isolation. True lovers know that the pleasures of heaven and salvation are found in balanced relationships of mutual cooperation --- NOT through unilateral acts of mutual- excommunication and isolation of individuals who are already alienated from many powerful people. - - - - - - - - - True lovers look at familiar geometric tile patterns and discern the many ways in which the whole pattern can be viewed as being composed of alternative distinctive- key elements. True lovers do not see any one key element as the exclusive key element which is THE KEY to seeing the TILE- PATTERN CORRECTLY. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================