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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0305222.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOMINEERING PEOPLE EFFORTS CONTROL OWN OTHER SELF 030522 %RELATIONSHIPS DISHONESTY SECRECY UNILATERAL MUTUAL 030522 %COERCIVE VIOLENT INTEGRITIES UNBALANCED DESIRES 030522 %UNINFORMED IGNORANCE TOUCH CONSEQUENCES LOVE GRACE 030522 Domineering people's efforts to control their own and/or other people's RELATIONSHIPS are dysfunctional because their efforts: 1. Engender resentment, 2. Engender dishonesty and secrecy, 3. Are themselves dishonest about possibilities, 4. Are unilateral; i.e., not mutual/cooperative. 5. Are coercive; i.e., not liberating/gentle. 6. Are violent; i.e., violating integrities. 7. Are unbalanced; NOT stabilizing in the long term. 8. Are uninformed by other's needs/desires. 9. Are out-of-touch with their consequences. 10. Are NOT motivated or directed by Love and Grace. It may help us to deal with such dysfunctional efforts --- if we recognize some details of just why they are dysfunctional, unjust, disintegrative, etc. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================