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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTRASTING LIFE STYLES CHARACTERISTICS ATTITUDES+030327 %LOVERS PEACEMAKERS CONTENTIOUS DOMINEERING CONTROL+030327 %WORTHY RESPECT HONOR SUPPORT REVERENCE GOOD MOTIVE+030327 %FAITH WORKS RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALISTS ISOLATION+030327 %ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT DESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS+030327 %LISTEN LABEL HEAL FAULT BLAME SHAME GUILT SINNERS 030327 Domineering people are like wolves in sheep's clothing; often trying to present themselves as being worthy of respect, honor and support because of their good motivations, intentions and outstanding-works. When they engage in such pretensions it is helpful to keep in mind the following contrasting patterns in the foci of people's attention, noted below in two contrasting columns. Foci of True Lovers: Foci of DOMINEERING people: ==================== =========================== Personal-relationships Isolated individuals as such Descriptive-natural-laws Prescriptions & proscriptions Listening-to-people Putting labels on people Healing-relationships Fault, blame, shame and guilt Cooperative-relations Controls, laws, police, prisons Liberating-descriptions Commandments, demands, taboos Personal-reconciliation Labeling of enemies & traitors Gracious-peacemaking Preparations-for-and-war Working-with-people Working-on-people Creativity/adaptability Conformity and traditions Authenticity Formal rituals & ceremonies Conflict-resolution Winning or losing battles Doing-with-others Doing-to-others Working-with-spectrums Mandating dichotomous choices Sharing-with-others Doing-for, getting-from others Alienative-relationships Evil-individuals Integration Exclusivity Integrity Conformity Diversity Purity Integration Segregation Shared-vulnerability Defensive-invulnerability Sanctuary-communities Fortification and defenses Invitations Impositions Suggestions Requirements Offerings Demands Hospitality Invasions Civility Contentiousness Mutuality and balance Extremism and terrorism Gentleness/generosity Coercion/violence Not all the notable contrasts are pointed to by words on the same line. There are many notable contrasts pointed to by words/phrases which are diagonally across and up-or-down from each other. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================