blog traffic analysis
This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SUGGEST POINT CLARIFY DIFFERENCE HEALTHY INTEGRATE+030326 %DESTRUCTIVE CLEAR ABSOLUTE TRUTH SYMPATHETIC DEVIL+030326 %UNILATERAL CONTENTIOUS COOPERATIVE GRACIOUS GOOD+030326 %CREATION DESCRIPTION OWNERSHIP EVALUATION DISCERN+030326 %SCRIPT ROLE CONFORM OWNERSHIP CONTROL DEMAND LAWS+030326 %AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIP CREATIVITY REVOLUTION GODS 030326 The following is an effort to suggest and point toward some differences between HEALTHY/INTEGRATIVE versus UN-HEALTHY/DESTRUCTIVE efforts. Often the differences are not entirely clear. The text only suggests what the differences may be; rather than defines what the differences actually are. Items in the center below connect the upper entries at the left-and-right --- to the lower entries at the left-and-right --- in ways which may be suggestive to people who are ready, willing and able to be sympathetic to the diverse and contrasting suggestions --- which may be discerned here in gracious ways. UN-HEALTHY/DESTRUCTIVE HEALTHY/INTEGRATIVE ---------------------- ------------------- UNILATERAL and Cooperative and CONTENTIOUS Gracious Creations-of Descriptions-of Evaluations-of Avoidances-of Ownership-of Scripts Interpretations Role-assignments Relationships Conformity-patterns Authentic-beings Mission-assignments Discernments Demands-for-results Suggestions Labels-on-people Visions/Dreams Permissions/Taboos Tolerance Rituals/Formalities Creativity Traditions Revolutions Prescriptions Evolutions Proscriptions Risks Invulnerability Sanctuaries Defenses True-security Obedience Desires Impressions Responses Commandments Honest-dialogue Many domineering people will be contentious in response to the above suggestions --- because the diverse and contrasting suggestions may threaten the appearances of integrity of "The Domination System" which they idolize. We all need to beware of any person or persons who in some DOMINEERING way contend that some other person or persons are so wrong, evil or despicable --- that they (the DOMINEERING people) are right, good and honorable in their desire/intent to ignore the rights and denigrate/destroy the limited-integrities and desires of those whom the DOMINEERING people have labeled as wrong, evil and/or despicable. To respect, honor and/or support such DOMINEERING people is to invite disaster --- for such respect, honor and/or support undermines the work of reconcilers, healers and peacemakers --- and invites all DOMINEERING people to try to DOMINATE each other through the use of dishonesty, coercion and violence. Chaos is the natural result of showing respect, honor and/or support to such DOMINEERING people; no matter how "good" their stated motives and ideals may be. We can recognize them by the fruits of their alienative ways of relating to other people. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================