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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INDIVIDUAL PEOPLE COUPLES FAMILIES GROUPS CLANS+030318 %SHARE UNLIKE PATTERNS MUTUAL ACCEPTANCE REJECTION+030318 %LEVELS HUMANE INTIMACY SEXUALITY SPACE TIME SIGHT+030318 %TOUCHING THOUGHTS VISIONS DREAMS DESIRES PLEASURES+030318 %HOPES ASPIRATIONS FANTASIES FEARS ANXIETIES FEARS+030318 %KNOWLEDGE GOOD EVIL INSIGHT DOMINANCE CONTROL SINS 030318 Not all people, couples, families, groups, clans, --- share like patterns of mutual acceptance/rejection of kinds and levels of humane intimacy --- in regards to sharing: space, time, sight, touch; thoughts, visions, dreams, desires, pleasures; hopes, aspirations, fantasies, fears, anxieties; influence, resentment, anxieties, apprehension; knowledge, insight, understanding, memories; dominance, controls, prohibitions; inclusion, exclusion, permission; vulnerability, tolerance, encouragement; and other aspects of personal life. Personal relationships that are regarded as normal, natural and acceptable by some healthy cultures --- are viewed with embarrassment, fear and alarm in cultures and/or by individuals in many other cultures. In some cultures most relationships are prescribed in terms of well-defined conventional-roles --- to which individuals are assigned; or which individuals agree to play with each other. Conventional scripts exist and are followed. People who are not following conventional/formal scripts are viewed with alarm as threats to the "good-order" and "good-orders". Creativity and imagination are discouraged. Conformity to traditional scripts is expected --- and is often demanded/imposed through generally accepted controls. Destructive conflict & violence are often experienced between creative-people and domineering-conformists. Some conventional people cannot be involved comfortably in anything but one well-defined and conventional role at a time. Some creative people cannot be comfortable in imposed conventional roles. Some people can shift back and forth between various conventional roles; but are very uncomfortable when asked/invited to be involved in relationship(s) invented by the participants as they evolve within creative new kinds of relationships. Some people are comfortable only within a community of conventional relationships. They cannot tolerate even seeing any creative relationships evolving within their community. They feel that it is essential that all relationships within their own communities --- be properly controlled by proper authorities who are properly dominant -- under the control of "The Domination System" of "The Powers That Be". Under that System "Enduring Freedom" is in creative conflict with "Enduring Dominance/Controls" in ways that only true lovers can understand in the "Presence of Love". (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================