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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISCERN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HEALTHY HONEST INTIMACY+020920 %UNHEALTHY IMPRUDENT TRAITOR UNFAITHFUL DOMINEERING+020920 %LOYAL SUPPORTER DOMINATION SYSTEM RISKY OPENNESS+020920 %COURTSHIP FALLING LOVERS FOOLS SINNERS IMMORALITY+020920 %SAFELY VULNERABLE SANCTUARY FREEDOM LIBERATION GOD+020920 %CONFORMITY SALVATION WORKS FAITH RITUAL REDEMPTION 020920 Domineering people are often unable to discern the difference between healthy honesty/intimacy and un- healthy "honesty/intimacy". The difference is much easier for healthy/integrative people to discern. Why? Domineering people who are faithful supporters of "The Domination System" are not permitted to take the risk of being honest or intimate --- because being honest or intimate entails being vulnerable to other domineering people. You cannot maintain dominance/control when you are vulnerable. Faithful supporters of "The Domination System" must never be vulnerable, honest or intimate; and must not be tempted to be vulnerable, honest or intimate. Thus they must not be tempted to consider carefully the shades of gray between healthy honesty/intimacy and un- healthy "honesty/intimacy". To discern that difference would suggest that some forms of honesty/intimacy are o.k.; while for faithful supporters of "The Domination System" all forms of honesty/intimacy must be totally forbidden; unthinkable. The above considerations suggest why it is that faithful supporters of "The Domination System" systematically fail to help young people discern the difference between premature/imprudent honesty/intimacy in a romantic relationship; and timely/prudent honesty and/or intimacy in a romantic relationship. Domineering people cannot remain faithful to "The Domination System" and tolerate courses in school about how to grow into healthy intimacy, honesty, and sexual relationships. Such tolerance is a terrible sign of a lack of loyalty-to and faith-in "The Domination System". Anyone who fails to show intolerance for such tolerance must be punished, excommunicated, etc. Beware of them. At minimum shun them! Consider how terrible it would be to help young authentic people who are prone to become romantically, honestly, intimately, and/or sexually involved with others like them --- to be able to discern the differences between healthy/honest intimacy/sexuality on the one hand; and the seductive ways of domineering supporters of "The Domination System" --- ways used to take advantage of people's points of weakness and vulnerability --- through dishonesty, deception and pretentiousness. To help young people in that honest way would constitute a total repudiation of the great and powerful "Domination System". Such a traitorous act which would have to be punished in the most sever way imaginable! Such honest help is un- imaginable! Shameful! People who act so shamefully must be denigrated and destroyed. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================