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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INTEGRATIVE COMMITMENTS NATURES FOCI LEAD HELP+020703 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITIES EFFORTS TRAGIC DEVIL+020703 %GOOD SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS ARROGANCE COERCION VIOLATE+020703 %SACRIFICE HONESTY PEACE SHALOM HEALTHY RELATIONS+020703 %FOCUS FOCI PRIORITIES ULTIMATE CONCERNS POLITICS+020703 %RELIGIOSITY INSTITUTIONS PREACHING TEACHING LAW 020703 What is the nature/focus of commitments which lead us toward both personal integrities and lead us toward communal integrities? What are the natures/foci of commitments which lead us towards the disintegration of our personal integrities and of our communal integrities? It is ODD how in EVEN our best efforts we tend to confuse the contrasting natures/foci of our truly integrative efforts --- with the nature/foci of our falsely disintegrative efforts. We try to make our efforts which lead us to disintegrate each other --- to look like our efforts which lead us to become integrated with each other; in balanced, mutual, cooperative Love. Our integrative efforts entail many mutually complementary aspects --- which include among them COMMITMENTS to facilitate and promote NON- VIOLENT and NON-COERCIVE kinds of: KINDNESS INTEGRATION ASSISTANCE LIBERATIONS HONESTY COOPERATION FACILITATION FREEDOMS AUTHENTICITY AUTHORITY AFFIRMATIONS REVELATIONS PEACEMAKING PEACE BALANCE MUTUALITY CONFLICT RESOLUTION INTEGRITY INTEGRATION KNOWLEDGE REVELATIONS CONFESSIONS FELLOWSHIP FRIENDSHIPS LOVERS CONGREGATIONS BUSINESS STABILITY GOVERNANCE MANAGEMENT SCIENCE RELIGION THEOLOGY GOVERNMENTS POLITICS Our disintegrative efforts are the kinds of efforts which can accurately be described/pointed-to in terms of words such as: EXCLUSIVE COERCIVE VIOLENT LIMITING THREATENING INTIMIDATIVE PUNITIVE OPPRESSIVE DESTRUCTIVE REPRESSIVE DOMINEERING CONTROLLING PRETENTIOUS DISHONEST SECRETIVE CONFUSING SELF-RIGHTEOUS CODEPENDENT ADDICTIVE UNHEALTHY SELF-CENTERED EGO-CENTRIC COLLUSIVE FEARFUL SELFISH DEFENSIVE AGGRESSIVE INSECURE STRESSFUL ANXIOUS VENGEFUL ANGRY DISTRUSTFUL SUSPICIOUS ALIENATIVE HOPELESS Commitments which lead us into RELATIONSHIPS which may reasonably be characterized by the words just above --- are disintegrative commitments --- no matter how hard we try in "unified" ways to make them appear to us as worthy of honor, respect and support. We AS-INDIVIDUALS can not be worthy of honor, respect & support if we are trapped in RELATIONSHIPS that are not worthy of honor, respect and support which are integrative. We need each other's help to work our ways out of such tragic ADDICTIVE RELATIONSHIPS. We cannot work our ways out through the use of violence in any of its many tragic forms. With Love. Shalom. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================