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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CENTRAL STATION EVIL RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION SIN+010110 %GUILT SHAME EXCOMMUNICATE REJECTION EXCLUSIVE GOD+010110 %ANGER REVENGE GETTING YES EVEN CONFLICT PEACE+010110 %RESOLUTION AGREEMENT COOPERATION TOGETHER SEXUAL+010110 %DOMINATION SYSTEM DISCIPLINE LOYALTY ADDICTIONS+010110 %ABUSE JUSTIFICATION SALVATION DAMNATION JUDGEMENT+010110 %HEAVEN HELL CONFORM APPEARANCE DECEPTION HONESTY 010110 Central in the evolution of evil relationships which are characterized by: alienation, estrangement, guilt, shame, excommunications, rejections, and exclusivity --- is the willingness of domineering people to use/abuse: alienation, estrangement, guilt, shame, excommunications, rejections and exclusivity --- as justified tools with which to manage, discipline, punish, threaten, manipulate, coerce, violate, and destroy people who are: creative, non-conformists, authentic, artistic, musical, honest, open, lovers, affectionate, compassionate, different; and not preoccupied with issues of control. Domineering people attempt to find their meaning, security, salvation, satisfaction, and redemption in being in control of "things" and people. It is a futile effort which leads to tragic consequences for all of their victims; which include themselves --- but domineering people cannot see this truth because of their arrogance, self-righteousness and dishonest patterns of manipulating "things", peoples and truths. Domineering Leaders cannot (according to their own ideals, values and principles) permit themselves or others to know and enjoy true security as being safely vulnerable within the sanctuaries of healthy intimate relationships wherein all participants are open, honest, and equally share power with all others participants in the relationships. To permit such sanctuaries to exist would be to permit such people to come to recognize, name, understand, transcend, and subvert the powers of Domineering Leaders to be in control. The COSMOS would fall apart! That would be the end of the WORLD of the Domineering Leaders --- upon which they depend for their meaning, security, salvation, satisfaction, and redemption. NO WAY! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================