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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9901122.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MOVE BOUNDARIES BETWEEN CONFLICTING IDEAL VALUES+990112 %PRINCIPLES PRIORITIES GOALS DESIRES INTENTION SIN+990112 %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKING SHALOM LOVE WAR 990112 In our efforts to minimize our discomfort, embarrassment and inconvenience we often act in ways which move boundaries between conflicting ideals, values and principles --- so that the boundaries are outside our own inner circle of friends and associates. Such efforts may be comforting and convenient in the short term ---but such efforts generate inevitable long term conflicts between the groups which come to be separated by the shifted boundaries between conflicting ideals, values and principles. We shift the boundaries from being within our inner circle of friends and associates---to being between our inner circle and the inner circle of other people with whom we are not familiar. We tighten the various inner circles in ways which accentuate the differences between inner circles and so accentuate the conflicts between inner circles. People in contrasting inner circles become less and less familiar with each other---and so become more and more likely to engaged in disintegrative relationships with each other. If we do not engage in integrative relationships with people who are inside other inner circles --- we become prone to engage in disintegrative relationships with such people. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================